Front Cover

Table of Contents

Foreward

Chapter Four

Chapter Eleven

Chapter Fourteen

Back Cover

Acknowledgements

Foreword

Part I. The Nature of Ourselves

Chapter 1 Where We Have Been

Objective facilitation
Acceptance of reality

Chapter 2 Where We are Now

Formulation of fact
The planning paradigm

Chapter 3 Where We are Going

Decision making process
Re-evaluating our decisions

Part II. The Conductor

Chapter 4 The Role of the Objective

Learning to accept us
Trusting the innocent
Advancing forward

Chapter 5 Stops Along the Way…Another Station

Recognizing a stop
Letting go of the misconception
Starting again

Chapter 6 Perpetual Motion

Facilitation revisited
Trust revisited

Part III. What About Me?

Chapter 7 The Harder We Work…The Worse It Is

More is not better
Letting go again
Is this really all there is?

Chapter 8 Being Afraid to Move On

Standing still feels easier.
Nobody understands…why bother?
Everyday brings new problems
I’m everything they said I was.
No really…you’re not.

Chapter 9 The Emergence of the “New” You

Fear of yesterday’s mistakes
Looking over my shoulder
Stumbling along for now

Part IV. Out the Other Side

Chapter 10 It Was Within Me All the Time

Letting Go of the Past
Reminders of the dead self

Chapter 11 Learning to be Good Enough

First we crawl…then we walk
Hope starts today
Tomorrow is a new day

Chapter 12 This is a Good Thing

Happiness is within us all.
Will it last?
Learning to accept the wave.

Part V. The Future of Me

Chapter 13 Facilitating Growth

Looking back for guidance
Feeling the pain
Trusting to let go

Chapter 14 Always “Half-full”

Problems are solutions in process
Putting closure to “can’t”
Dream again

Part VI. Gameplayers…

Chapter 15 Forming the Triangle

Forming the decision
Is my way His way?
Chapter 16 Outside the Lines
Beyond what we see
Feel your way along
Soar like eagles